Psychic Readings (3)

Relationship Psychic Readings

How can you truly love anyone until you love yourself.

Relationship psychic readings are my favourite.  I must have undertaken thousands of these types of psychic readings over the years.  I don’t think anything will now surprise me but you never know.  One of the main problems is communication. Perhaps, one side is in the wrong and doesn’t want to listen and runs away.  No one likes to admit they are wrong and it is easier to bury your head in the sand rather than face a situation. However, I have learnt - no one is perfect and I do not judge as there by the grace of God go I.

Communication

If you feel that your partner is not listening to you or selective listening that is listens to what he or she wants to hear then - STOP.

I have noticed that when this happens one of two things can happen 1) one partner strops out 2) tempers are raised and things are said that are not meant so please - STOP.

The best solution to the problem is to write things down in a letter.  I have said this to many and it does work. There is no need to have a go at the partner in the letter just write down how you feel and ask for a letter in return of how they feel.

Make sure that every word is positive and counts.  Most relationship problems are caused by miscommunication.

For Example

In a recent psychic reading a young lady was convinced her partner was having an affair.  He was always looking at women and there were constant rows on the subject and they were close to breaking up.  Anyone listening to this young lady would have agreed with her. However, I work with the aura system which is the energy system around your body. This contains all the colours of the rainbow but we normally work with three - one going in, one going out and one constantly there.  The aura changes all the time depending on what you are doing in life and more colours come into the energy system.

For more details please see webpage ‘Aura Readings’ from new Psychic Readings website

Once I have tuned into your aura I can see the past, present and what you have intended to do for the future.

I could see that this young lady had a previous broken heart from someone who hurt her very badly by betraying her with another woman. Once I have tuned into someone I can usually get the close aura of others around them such as their partners and any potential old or new partners.  These auras are usually romantically linked. There were two auras so this was a decision making time and I could see that she was close to walking away.

Once tuned into her partner I could also see the upset that he was hiding.  He knew how she felt and he did not understand and was getting more and more annoyed.  If he looked at a pair of boots another girl was wearing he would be accused of looking at the girl’s legs.  All he was thinking that the boots would look good on his girl. In his opinion, he could not win. He had not done anything wrong but felt he could not carry on this relationship as she was pushing him away by the constant accusations.

I asked her to write him a letter as it was in my eyes a ‘make or break’ situation.  In this letter, I told her to ask him for help.  She wrote how she was betrayed before in a relationship and was feeling very insecure when he looked at other women. Also, that it is her problem but could he come with her to a relationship counsellor to help her get over the problem.  Finally, I also asked that she reassures her partner on how she feels about him. It worked.

The reason why it worked is because when someone receives a positive letter they can read it and read it until like an electric light bulb it goes off in the head - Ah! that is what he or she means because they have had time to digest the letter. In addition, make sure there is not one negative word about your partner for them to mull over.

Decision making

I could write a book about relationships but when two people are growing apart it is easy for another person to get involved.  This is the time when people do have affairs. Please no one is perfect and if you have an affair find out the reason why.  Guilt is a terrible feeling which can ruin lives.  I repeat no one is perfect. However, if anyone is trying to come to terms with a relationship and make major decisions try another simple solution.

Before going to bed ask whoever you believe in your God or Angels to help you with a little exercise. On one side of a piece of paper write all the good points about your partner and the reasons why you should stay with him or her.

On the other side write down all the bad points of your partner and the reasons why you should leave and how would you feel without him or her. Sleep on it. In the morning have a look at what you have said - the answer should stare out at you. Pay attention to your dreams as it is spirit or your guide’s way of helping you. Maybe you cannot understand the dreams but your soul does.

Dreams can also be described as the way the conscious part of your brain talks to the sub conscious or left part talking to the right part.  In addition, some people believe it is the way the brain sorts out events that has happened into the right folder and that is why the little saying; ‘if you have a problem sleep on it’ as the brain will sort it out.

Dream Analysis

I can only go by experience in this respect and although there are some very good Dream Analysis Dictionaries, I truly believe that the best person to interpret your dream is you.  If it is your sub conscious doing the guiding or spirit or even spirit guide they will all draw on your own experiences.

For example

In one psychic reading a lady telephoned me very upset. In her dreams she was seeing mice dying on her bed.  As she was dreaming of death her imagination was running riot and she thought the worst was going to happen.

I asked her what does she think of mice?

Her reply was that she hated them. The dream interpretation was easy. Death does not mean a death but the death of one part of her life and a brand new beginning. I then asked her what does she think of change. Again, she replied the same that she hated it. Her dream meant she hated change but change was coming and it doesn’t necessarily mean for the bad but for the good.

When I undertake psychic readings I know that all forms of communication are used.   Spirit regularly visit me in the night to guide me through a situation in my psychic readings not for myself but for others. This is why they say the best medium is one who has been through a lot of situations in life.  Spirit are able to draw on those situations to give the similar situation in the person that you are undertaking the psychic reading for.

An experienced psychic medium will understand this situation and know that the guidance is not for them but for the person they will be undertaking the psychic reading for. My little dog, Judy, sees spirit and many a time she has woken me up in the middle of the night because there is a presence in the room.  This may not necessarily be any spirit or guide connected to me but the spirit around you. They are the ones who know fully the situation and indeed in relationship problems I usually get both sides coming to visit me to give their guidance on the situation - my nights are sometimes busier than the daytime.

Example from spirit

On one occasion, I was woken up and the spirit in the room was a gentleman who looked like the old actors in a long dark coat and hat.  I looked at him and I was fully conscious expecting him to say any moment:-

Here’s looking at you kid.’

The funny thing was that the image was in all shades of grey and black.  He was not alone he had his moll with him. Again, this girl was all in grey and black except for one thing - bright red lips.  The lipstick was a very bright red and it was obviously meant as a feature and with the two characters being so dull in grey and black the lipstick really stood out.

The next day I undertook a psychic reading and the young lady felt that her boyfriend was cheating on her. For one fleeting moment, I saw the scene from the night before and I described what I saw.  The young lady explained to me out all the things I could have said or seen it was the red lipstick that made it so clear to her. Apparently, her boyfriend has a big thing about women wearing bright red lipstick almost to the point of an obsession. So you see spirit have a way of getting the message through and sometimes it is not always obvious to me as it is your message not mine.

Releasing old energies in the heart

One way of releasing old energies in the heart chakra is the crystal, Rose Quartz.  They make lovely jewellery today out of rose quartz.  Rose quartz brings in three qualities that are so badly needed; self love; self confidence; self worth. It also releases old energies in the heart chakra enabling you to move forward. Remember, by forgiving someone for their wrong thought, words and deeds towards you, helps you to  be forgiven for your wrongdoing. 

The deeds of today create the spiritual joys and sorrows of tomorrow.

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Copyright Jane S McCarthy 2008

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